Take Care of Me.

One of the best gifts you can give your loved ones is TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF. Ignoring your health by eating terrible food, not working out, and getting enough sleep will run your body down and you’ll end up sick more often. Meaning your loved ones will be put out of their way by taking care of you. We’re not just talking about getting the flu more often; but especially as we age and our bodies degenerate, we are more prone to falling, catching viruses, and our body isn’t able to fight diseases as well. Those who take care of the

mselves by eating healthy and working out will be healthier as they age. Who wants to ask their children to take care of a 70-year-old mother because she isn’t healthy enough to take care of herself? Not me, if I can help it!

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Ignore your body and undermine your own future. Your own potential. Your quality of life depends on it.

Guest Blogger: Heal Love Be

We’re so excited to feature another Guest Blogger, Jamie Falahee from Heal Love Be. She speaks candidly about her struggle with food allergies, and provides a detailed account of her journey towards health. If you struggle with similar problems, we encourage you to contact her (see bottom of page) with questions.

Q&A with Health and Wellness Blogger, Jamie Falahee

What motivated you to change your lifestyle?

Jamie @ Heal Love BeAs a child, I always had allergies.  I was clearing my throat constantly and took allergy pills and nasal sprays.  I thought that I was unlucky to have allergies and that it was just the way it was.  I also developed reflux in college, so then I was taking allergy pills, nasal spray, and reflux medication.  Additionally, in college I took pain reliever pills almost every day for headaches (and I’m not just talking hangover headaches here)!  I thought this was normal and that I was healthy!  I worked out inconsistently and tried to eat “healthy.”  I ate chicken and turkey instead of red meat most of the time, drank skim milk, ate low-fat cheese, and ate fruits and veggies.

I started to become concerned with this pill-popping and diet regime in my senior year of college.  I was taking courses in speech-language pathology learning about strokes and how it affects language and reading some of the causes of strokes and heart attacks, increased consumption of meat being one of the dietary causes.  Then, my roommate, Rachel, gave me a VHS (yes, a video! haha) called You Can’t Improve On God by Dr. Lorraine Day.  Dr. Day developed cancer and cured herself by making ten healthy changes in her life including transitioning to a vegan diet, participating in daily positive mind exercises (e.g., gratitude, etc.), getting enough sunshine, and exercising among other things.  Could this actually be true, I thought?!  I decided to temporarily give up meat (i.e., red meat, processed meat, poultry), but would continue to eat eggs, dairy, and fish.  At 22 years old, I became a pescatarian, and I never went back.  Of course, I have “cheated” here and there since then, but for the most part, have stayed the course.  It was easier than I thought it was going to be, and I liked it!

From 22 to 26 years of age, this was my diet.  I stopped my allergy pills, nasal spray, and reflux medication, and only used them when I had a “flare-up,” which was more often than I would have liked.  Around 25 years of age, I started to get sick ALL the time.  I had sinus infections and felt stuffy and had constant sinus headaches.  I took antibiotics to help the sinus infections (per doctors’ orders), but it wasn’t fixing the problem.  I would ask the doctors what I could do about my chronic sinus problems, and their only suggestion was medications.  I was so frustrated and upset that the doctors were only suggesting temporary treatment of my symptoms instead of helping me to prevent my symptoms from happening in the first place! 

This is when I started to do some health research on my own.  I read a book called Secrets of Self-Healing by Dr. Ni, and he recommended eliminating dairy from my diet because it is very mucus-forming.  So I tried it.  I decided to give up dairy and eggs.  Within 2 weeks, I felt so much better.  I wasn’t getting nearly as many headaches or post-nasal drip as before!  So, now I was practically vegan I realized.  I was only eating fish.  Little did I know, I wasn’t being the healthiest I could be, though.  I thought, since I didn’t eat all meat and dairy anymore, I was eating healthy.  But this was not true.  I was still eating lots of processed imitation meat products.  Then, in 2009, my sister-in-law, Sarah, recommended a book to me.  It was called The China Study by Dr. T. Colin Campbell, and this book changed my life!  It discussed the importance of a whole-foods (i.e., not processed) plant-based diet, and how it can drastically change your health.  So, I gave up fish, and I started eating less processed food, and more whole foods.  But my health journey didn’t end here!

My husband and I, for various reasons, moved five times in the past three years from Chicago, IL, to Charlotte, NC, to Cullowhee, NC, to Deerfield Beach, FL, to Jackson, MI, to Whitmore Lake, MI, which is where we are now (and are staying!).  All of these moves, job changes, and life changes were so stressful which did a number on my health, and my hormones became unbalanced.  After much research and experimentation, I found that I had candida overgrowth and a gluten intolerance which were also affecting my hormones!  So, now I don’t eat gluten anymore.  Not eating gluten has made me feel so much better and given me so much more energy.  I currently am working to get my hormones balanced by eating a healthy diet of fruits, vegetables, gluten-free grains, beans, lentils, and nuts as well as exercising and using stress-reducing techniques, such as meditation, deep breathing, and massages.  So, that’s my health story so far.

How are you dealing with these setbacks?

I try to look at the journey and be proud of how far I’ve come.  Most days, I’m motivated by how much better I feel.  Some days I get frustrated, though, because it is a lot of work to change your lifestyle.  The best way I’ve found to make changes is one step at a time.  If you’re interested in giving up sugar, caffeine, gluten, dairy, etc., try to just give up one at a time.  When you start to feel so much better and see results with the way you look as well, it will help to motivate you to keep going.

 How do you stay motivated?

It becomes easier and easier the more you get into the healthy lifestyle because you will slowly be making these positive changes and won’t even realize that they are becoming habits until they just are.  That’s not to say that I’m perfect.  There are days when I don’t eat as well or get off track with my stress level, but the most important thing to do when this happens is get right back to your healthy lifestyle as soon as you can.

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Surviving the Holiday 15

With only a week before Christmas, who doesn’t dread the part of the Holidays that endorses unlimited eating, forgotten workouts, and the dreaded Holiday 15!?! It’s almost become a part of life, “gain the weight in December, work all year to lose it”. It’s a North American rule. Sound familiar? I think some of us may do the same thing with credit cards… but back on point.

How do we enjoy the holidays without ending up feeling like bloated whales by the time it’s all over? Well, we can be strategic, set some goals, have a few guidelines, and we’ll be sure to Survive the Holiday 15:

Keep moving.

1. Switch it Up.
Take the stairs, get up and get water, park a little farther from the mall. With the added stress of the holidays, we need to keep moving. It’s okay to shorten your Cardio if you can’t fit it in, instead of the gym, try a yoga set on YouTube.

2. Involve the Family.
This season is about family right? Encourage healthy living by involving the whole family! Go for walks with the family through the Christmas tree farms. Park at the end of the street and walk through the lighted neighborhood with hot chocolate. Bundle up and hit up an outdoor skating rink.

3. Try some at home strength training.
Between commercials during your favorite Christmas music, alternate with sit-up, push-ups, burpies, squats and stretches. I’ve found this to be the very best way to fight the urge to munch throughout the entire movie.

Just take time to enjoy the peace and love during the Holiday Season

Just take time to enjoy the peace & love during the Holidays

Watch your Eating

1. Eat before you go. If you are planning on hitting up a really great Christmas spread, make sure you eat before you go. All those little appetizers are not as safe as you think, and the salad you ate on the way out the door will help cushion the little treats you may indulge in.

2. Pick a Treat.
Once you make it to the party, make sure you get a drink in your hand (tea or water), which will limit your handling capacity. make the rounds and decide on your selected treats. You know your limits. Make sure that every piece of food has been considered (and don’t just eat chips… what’s so special about that?). Ps. Skip the egg nog, at up to 350 calories a cup, it’s just not worth it!

3. Keep your eating clean at Home.
Just because it’s a big party out there doesn’t mean you have to forget about healthy eating at home. Keep the carrots, celery, oranges and apples handy this Christmas. This is one of the best ways to balance out all those Christmas parties, meals and celebrations.

We hope you take time to spread love and peace during the Holiday Season.
Merry Christmas!

Thanksgiving in the Rear View Mirror

With Thanksgiving in the rear view mirror, and the few pounds we gained still hanging on for dear life (what’s a post thanksgiving week without running off the weight?), but in my case, and my co-workers case, there is no shame! Between the turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet potato casserole and cranberry bliss bars, I had a delicious holiday and there wasn’t tooo much damage done!

Before our game. I was all smiles, having no idea how terrible of a game would ensue!

Later that weekend we went bowling and Black Friday shopping, (scored some awesome deals!), and of course, I ran. Not as many miles as I wanted to (I had these high and lofty goals of running about 20 miles. hah). Instead I did about 13.
I’m getting a little faster, this week it’s been about a 9:35 min/mile compared to last week, I ran about a 10:08 min/mile. I’ve been moving faster, breathing better, and feeling stronger! Granted, I had some longer runs last week (like 7 miles) compared to my longest run this week being 4 miles, and I generally take my longer runs slower. At this point I’m 12 miles away from my goal (of running 70 miles in November)- meaning I have 4 miles/day to run. Urg. It’s so cold in the mornings!! :( BUT I CAN DO IT!

On a non-running note, I am SO excited for Christmas! Because I work in higher Education, my office CLOSES for the week between Christmas and New Years so I’m lounging around (aka going on long runs) and relaxing!

I know this sounds strange, but I do more running on holidays than I do during regular life because not working actually gives me time to go on those long runs! Anyone else feel the same way?

This American Thanksgiving

Since I do come from American roots, I have celebrated more Thanksgivings that I can count. Actually, I don’t really remember one that I missed! I come from a large dutch family that is loud and lively, and always up for a good time filled with chocolate pie, laughter and games (sometimes guns, with the season closing that weekend). And since I’m born Canadian, I was lucky enough to celebrate twice!

Here is my long list, to join all my friends spamming our newsfeeds, of things I’m grateful for:

1. Two glorious days off work. Well, with the weekend backed up, it’s 4 days in a row! Feel sorry for my overworked, frazzled brain!

2. I’ve been keeping up with the running. So the pounds won’t be sticking. BRING ON THE TURKEY and PIE! <3

3. The temperatures are GLORIOUS for long runs. I’m not training for anything right now, so I suppose you could call me a ‘recreational runner’. Wait, you can call me that even when I am training for a half-marathon. Running is about being fun. Not a lot of seriousness involved… don’t judge. :)

4. Spending time with my amazing family. When I got married, I struck gold, because his family is wonderful! I’m more about the family than I am about the food. That’s what Thanksgiving is really about for me.

5. And the food. I can’t wait to try the gloriously unhealthy Cranberry Bliss Bars I made (yup, stole the recipe from Starbucks!) I spent the whole evening in the kitchen tonight making food, and I’m equally excited for the HEALTHY Sweet Potato Casserole I made from Dashing Dish! It’s going to be delicious, along with the Pumpkin Coffee Cake for first thing in the morning. Wow, I’m gaining weight just typing this.

What are you in charge of making? First time at this dish or are you a pro? I’d love to hear about your Thanksgiving food!

Excited about a 5 mile run in the morning! Enjoy your holiday!

Happy November! Food & Goals…

This week I found the cutest food blog… “Dashing Dish”. With the holidays coming up, I’m excited to give these super healthy and low fat meals, helping me plan healthy holiday food without giving-up on our healthy goals!

This extremely healthy and delicious dish has only 174 calories per serving. With that delicious maple pecan topping, it’s amazing that the calorie count is that low! Click on the photo for the recipe…

Goal Setting

Excited about the Month of November and planning out new goals!

  • The Push-up challenge! I don’t know about you, but doing more than about 7-10 pushups has eluded me. This challenge will bring us up to 40 pushups at the end of the month! Checkout my Facebook for the calender.
  • At the beginning of the year, I made of goal of 500 miles this year. Since I had some trouble this summer, I need to catch up! You’ll find me and my pretty Garmin on the trails a lot this month, going to log 70 miles.
  • Get back on my situp/crunch routine… my abs need some love.

What are your November goals? We’d love to hear them!

Starving yourself.

As I spent my whole weekend in the freezer of Starbucks studying, I overheard a lady talking about her little tummy and how she “starves herself and it still won’t go away”. I wanted to hug her and tell her that she needs to eat regularly, a good breakfast, and run (or she can walk. We won’t judge), and she would be a lot more likely to lose the couple pounds she was wishing away.

So why is it bad to starve yourself to lose weight? Let me count the ways:

  • Lower metabolism level (which means your body will just hold onto the fat for dear life, scared you’ll never eat again!)
  • Loss of energy
  • Loss of appetite through to De-hydration

Instead of skipping meals, it’s recommended that you eat 5 small meals throughout the day. Or grazing all day on apples, carrots and healthy snacks. Always have a filled water bottle within reach to continue to flush out toxins. You might feel bloated initially, but eventually the water will run through your system, and you’ll feel so much more energized!

If you do starve yourself to lose weight, when you finally do start eating again, that weight will pile back on.
I’ve included a good list of metabolism boosting foods so you are able to eat and lose weight at the same time!

  • Blueberries- High in antioxidant
  • Almonds- healthy macronutrients and calories
  • Salmon- high in protein, and a unique type of health-promoting fat, the omega-3 essential fatty acid.
  • Spinach- provide more nutrients than any other food
  • Turkey- provides almost half of the recommended daily allowance of folic acid, good source of vitamins B, B1, B6, zinc and potassium.
  • Oatmeal- boring plain old oatmeal, high in fiber
  • Green Tea- also high in antioxidant
  • Water- Keeps our body functioning well.

If we’re eating good, balanced meals, we’re more likely to kick that run in the butt! What’s your tips for getting the nutrients you need?

Ask a Runner: Increasing Mileage

Question from my reader:

How do I build up my endurance? I can run a 5k race, but I’m trying to build up my endurance for a half-marathon this winter. I’m exhausted by the end of my run, and don’t know how to increase my mileage.

My Perspective:

I built up really slowly in order to prepare for my half-marathons because of my busy schedule. Once I felt comfortable doing three miles consistently, I upped it to 3.5 miles, and pushed my long run to 5 miles. I felt SO accomplished my first 5 mile run! Several weeks later I increased my daily run to four miles during the week, and kept increasing my long run on the weekend according to the Hal Higdon Training Plan.

Also, diet is vital. Cutting out my sugar and carbs really helped in increasing my energy. I started eating a lot of Cliff Bars, but they get expensive quickly, so I started making my own protein bars! I don’t post a lot of recipes but this one is great for having enough energy to kick out a run in the afternoon. I also like to eat a banana and peanut butter about 10 minutes before my run.

Finally, take a day off here and there (about twice a week) to work in the gym doing planks, weights, squats and lunches. This keeps you from losing all your muscle due to the increased mileage.

5 Things to do Today…

I was featured on a cute little blog called 5thingstodotoday. David publishes 5 different things to do per-day, giving you great tips for expanding your lifestyle by suggesting little things that you can do to change up your life!

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These were my suggestions:

1.       Enjoy some time outside today. Go for a hike, or just a walk around a local lake or park.

2.       Set up your fitness goals for the month/year and do what it takes to stick to them.

3.       Join a run club, get out with like-minded runners and enjoy the motivation!

4.       Find a farmers market in your area and buy farm fresh, organic food. Try throwing together for an evening meal.

5.       Enjoy a cup of coffee or tea at an independent coffee shoppe in your town, supporting the members in your community.

Definitely take a minute to hit David up at 5thingstodotoday, and even submit your own very awesome checklist of things you’ve got planned :)

Self-Love

Do you ever wake up in the morning, or mess something up, and can’t stop thinking about how you screwed that up? It starts as a healthy reminder to step up your game, and quickly turns into self loathing.

That’s what happened earlier this week. It started out as a healthy reprimand, and quickly turned into the ever familiar self loathing I was quite friendly with when I struggled with my eating disorder. I would hate myself for eating anything and I would expound further but I remember how the comparison game worked:

  • I would compare myself to others who struggle(d) with an eating disorder, and punish myself if I ate more than them, and gloat if I ate less than them.
  • I was jealous of those who got hospitalized, and felt sorry for those who swelled from water retention.

Obviously this was kinda messed up. But the thing is, I thought that that’s all I deserved. I thought I wasn’t worth anything until I was less than 100lbs, and I wouldn’t allow myself to be happy. I was going to make myself miserable until I’d reached my goal. The only problem was, that when I started losing a bunch of weight, I felt miserable so I couldn’t even enjoy my new *skinny*. I was terribly sick and wasn’t able to climb up a flight of stairs without fainting. Where were my hopes and dreams of going to college? Traveling? Moving out? I was so sick I couldn’t function.

I’m so glad I’m in a healthier place now! These are a few things that keep me grounded:

  • A husband who thinks I’m beautiful
  • Daily quiet time, reflecting on things that are true and uplifting
  • An exhilarating amount of running and keeping active
  • Investing in myself (finishing my bachelors degree this fall!!)
  • Learning to love myself
  • Taking time to enjoy the smallest moments. Taking time to be joyful
  • Taking time for myself. Sometimes this means taking my journal to Starbucks and writing for an hour. Other times this means taking 2 hours to run by the beach. And occasionally it means spending an hour on pinterest, pretending to be productive :)

“If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.”

- Barbara De Angelis, author

What helps you guys keep a healthy perspective on life and yourself? How do you keep your emotions steady and enjoy life when it seems crazy?